Life sometimes is just like the sun in the sky.

You rise and then slowly vanish at the end of the day.

Did the day go really good, since it vanished after immense happiness?

Or was the day worse and hid behind the night

I saw a small clip saying “Everything happens for a reason” is bullshit, try to cope with the situation and act accordingly.

Well initially I felt this is so wrong on so many levels to be so pessimistic about life. And I believed in this theory for so long until recent days.

The sun vanished in the sky because it had to and it rises in the morning because it had, there is no reason behind it.

The same goes with life. If someone or something did not happen it is not tied to a reason, you need to own it. You could not get it or you spoiled the relationship or the other person or situation was wrong at that time, and it did not end well.

Does it mean, it had a reason? If it was a relationship, you had a charming person riding in a horse coming for you That’s why someone else dumped you???

Nope!! You dated the wrong guy buddy as simple as that. And how did the current one work, because you are not repeating the mistakes back and owning to leave when things do not fall in place!!

People always tend to try to catch the drowning sun and then drown along with it.

Let the sun set on its own as its clock ticks, you do not rush behind. You own your time and when everything falls in place, you rise!

Does that mean you remain gloomy if life does not turn good at all??

Nope!! Try to be the brave one friend to yourself who stood up for you at bad times and if none was there, be yourself that friend!!