This post is all about the great movie 777 Charlie, a story revolving around dharma and his daughter charlie. The most trustworthy animal in the world is a dog. This movie beautifully shows how this trust is earned.
People say owning a pet is nothing less than having and looking after your own kid. The madness, the mess, the care , the innocence , the love that is received are equivalent.
Life focuses on the present. It’s not about the past or the future, but all that is with you today. This movie has various lessons to life for any person of any age. This movie can easily connect you to the main character Ms Charlie. You’ll laugh along with it, dance along with it, and cry along with it.
Simple aagi Ondh love story of ms charlie and dharma. Let that be the beginning of many other love stories. Similar Charlie’s will find their lucky owner or partner.
Yea you heard it right. There is a ‘but’ for everything you do. This also applies to parenting. Everybody quickly comments on parenting. They claim that if they were in the parents’ place, they would not have allowed or done it! It’s quite irritating. It’s a bitter statement that parents have to hear now and then throughout their life as a parent.
But the most difficult phase and fearful phase is the parenting in every person’s life. People act on their instincts. Their actions may be wrong or disastrous. Alternatively, they might create a beautiful story. The same applies on parenting.
A newborn is unaware of the financial status, attitude, or even the clothing of their parents. However, humans instinctively start feeding kids with the unwanted values of our lives. We should instead cherish the beauty of their days before they grow into wholesome adults.
A parent who has invested their life for their kid expects the same in return. They forget that it’s not a 9 to 5 salary job where you get something back. A parent who gives all the freedom of life believes they are the best parent ever. They forget that life is not a competition to show whose parents are best.
When parenting goes wrong, even the kids start blaming the parents. We forget that there is no book with written rules to follow step-by-step in parenting. We may be seen as the worst parents. Try to put yourself in their shoes once in a lifetime. You will not say the same.
If there was a book for good parenting, and people followed it, this world would be a fairy world. Stop terming the parenting as good or bad, it’s the instinct which makes us who we are. Whatever is your status, your parents are trying hard to be a role model to you. It might be a failure, but they are trying it daily to meet upon your expectations! After all they are humans just like others.
What do you just feel when you hear the word memory!!!! We often use it too much in our daily conversation. However, we never try to understand the beauty of it. We overlook the hidden trauma that comes along with it.
I remember being mesmerized by the concept of human memory. It was through a movie in Malayalam which I watched when I was a kid. The lead in the movie starts forgetting daily tasks. These include brushing teeth, the usual office route, and office ethics. He even forgets his family at the end. We all know Alzheimer’s, that was the movie about. It was scary. At the same time, it taught everyone a lesson. We should do the tiny things in our daily activities of life with enthusiasm. You never know how much you are storing throughout.
Memories are quite crazy. We are taught to walk and eat. We do this throughout our life in the same pattern. We are unsure about the size of the memory our body can store. However, one thing is certain. Current cloud technology would crash if it had to manage human memories. People often say, forget it, it’s just a matter of time. But the reality is, we never forget. It’s stored somewhere deep inside our storage, which might awaken at any point in life.
The mind recalls every negative moment. This happens if I were asked to remember one thing in life that hurt you the most. It would retrieve them from the memory storage. It hits you in the face with them. At the same time, if I were asked about the happiest moment, I would wonder. Where are all these memories stored?
Let that be a good or bad memory , it cannot be erased so easily. To live your life to the fullest, store your sad memories deep down. Let only good ones overflow above them. Handle with utmost care. Memories might break into pieces and shatter your peace of mind. If you take care of them, they can give you a cute smile on your face throughout your life.
People read many books. These books have been read and re-read thousands of times. Still, people never end the worries in life right!
It takes immense energy to put through and effort to bring in a new world after reading a book. There is no other friend as a book. Take n number of list or tasks to do, this one thing can be done at any time. But still people fail to find the beauty in the writings and in the books.
Many authors are born daily. Only a few have the courage to put their words into writing. Lets say its written also but too far to publish. The world filled with judgmental people how far can be we succeed this is what it ends up.
Never stop reading and never stop questioning the words in the readings. Get your own answers because each of you have your own story with more meaning to already written words. No worries end with a book. Yet, you can smile for a while with a book in your hand. You can also smile for your entire life. If worries, sorrows, or happiness ended in a book, the world would be better. If they started in a book, the world would also be better.
It swings until there is an external force happening on it continuously, yes the pendulum. Have you ever tried to stop a pendulum at the center with your hands and utterly failed, I have.
You can never stop a pendulum that is already super powered by external forces. It may be wind, or it may be some actions. Until all these have a stop, it’s never going to stay in the center. Ironically, we live our life like a pendulum. We swing through life with a lot of confusions. Our emotions and reactions often just do not have any meaning. Letting it be as it is can make it calm down. However, we, so-called human beings, tend to add the if’s and but’s in life. What if I lose all my money? What if I am alone for my whole life? I am happy, but I would have been happier if I had him. I would have been happier if I had more money or if I had that house. It’s just never ending.
The simple meaning of happiness is successfully destroyed with the if’s and but’s. Make the pendulum calm by its own. It may take a long time or just a few seconds. Do not waste time by putting in extra effort. Avoid swinging it with much greater force. A very hard truth to digest is that the safest way to deal with anything is to be the pendulum. Swing around n number of times. Calm down at a certain point. Do not disturb it by putting more energy towards it.
There is only one things which keeps you calm, happiness with whatever state you are. Keep the pendulum steady until you are ready. Face the forces as they are. Return to the same steady state no matter what it takes.
Have you ever danced to the tone of your mind !!!😅
Never mind, all would have. Its that tone which never goes silent, rushes up all time with numerous thoughts. Its like the trailor that will never get released, its like the book that will never get launched , its like the cloud which will never burst to rain.
Our past , present and future all things cover up can make a brilliant movie which can become a blockbuster thriller if released but better not… Dancing to these tones running in mind, laughing at them , teasing them we face the reality which is great suspense thriller. Better not reveal the suspense ever..!!!
Watching through the screens popping up in mind, warning to us , blaming us for our mistakes, planning for a fairy tale world where no sadness and only filled with smiles thats what the mind captures. Truth is always much bigger to these and above these. Dance to these screens , make your own songs and never end it , because if a dream ends then there ends your focus on life to live.
How important is silence around this busy buzzing world. I hate Silence but at same time, if am with a person where silence also makes you happy then that is really beautiful.
Not many people can be kept queit. How shy or how introvert the person may be but only the closed ones know that this person cannot be stopped. Its so peacefull for once in a while to be in silence and be with you.
Achieving the happiness in silence with nothing being done beside sitting idle then you are no more dependent on anyone. Happiness comes first from you and then spreads to all. Cheer up, there are n number of things to be happy of. Just watch silently you will get atleast one thing to smile wholeheartedly.
